It's hard to believe that were are already to August. This year has really gone by quickly, despite the facts that we've spent so much time at home. And though I see my husband every day (and my kids too), we haven't been able to enjoy many "date nights" together in this pandemic. What about you? Are you having a hard time finding date nights during this pandemic? We've been having almost no date morning, afternoon, or nights here at the Long house. We really need to be intentional about … [Read more...]
Download FREE Love Nudge App by 5 Love Languages and Win!
Love Nudge for Couples is a playful, engaging app that uses the proven principles of The 5 LoveLanguages® to help couples confidently grow closer. The app is simple to start, easy to use, and a whole lot of fun. You’ll get the most out of it when you use it with a partner, but you are welcome to use it alone. The Love Nudge App With the Love Nudge app you'll: learn your love languageset relationship goals and activitiesnudge your partner … [Read more...]
How to Keep Your Marriage Alive When You Have Young Children
Becoming a parent is one of the most amazing times in your life and I don't think that the feeling of raising children of your own could be any better, but being a parent can also be extremely draining. I mean, children require your constant attention and care and that can be a bit tiring for any person. Having babies will take over your personal and social life, but trust me it is all worth it. Sometimes unfortunately your kids take up all of your time and your marriage could suffer because … [Read more...]
Secret Indulgence I Don’t Want To Share with Hubby (But Will)
After long summer days (did you know it gets dark at 9:30 pm + here in Western Washington in the summer?!), I can't wait until everyone is in bed. Do you know why? I've mentioned it before on the blog, but I'll tell you all again. I love indulging in sweet treats when everyone else is in bed. The kids have an early bedtime, hubby is a morning person, and I'm a night owl. Queue my new favorite sweet treat: Skinny Cow Vanilla Bean Dream ice cream sandwiches. ↓ What's your favorite secret … [Read more...]
Get the Help in Marriage that you Need
I have been married for almost 17 years. Today, I am thankful for a great marriage. When my husband and I were first married, we were young, and it was hard. We struggled those first few years. Marriage takes work. A lot of work. I'll admit that the key to our good marriage is our ability to communicate with each other. A good marriage doesn't just happen, we have to work at it. We are making deliberate decisions daily to communicate and love. Once we learned that love is a verb and not a … [Read more...]
She’s Dealing with Divorce…
My close friend (since childhood) is dealing with divorce. After 15 years+ and three kids, it is a hard decision and I wish there were more I could do for her. This post has nothing to do with divorce specifically, when we should divorce, and casting blame. It has to do with showing others love when they need it most. With Valentine's Day season coming up, and her birthday, I think this is the perfect time to show her extra love. Do you have divorced friends that could use some extra love this … [Read more...]
Four Tips for Parenting Alone
by Rebecca Alwine As a military spouse, I’ve have the unique experience of parenting alone more times than I ever imagined. Some compare it to being a single parent, but I do not agree. Yes, in that moment, I am the only parent at home, but that is not a fair representation of the support I get from my husband. Emotional support, financial support, and parenting support, while often communicated through Skype or a phone call, is still support I get that a single parent wouldn’t. So for those … [Read more...]
